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What to Plan First

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You can’t plan a thing until you know your bottom line, and “your starting point should be what you and your fiancé can afford, not how much all of the things you want will cost,” says Alexa von Tobel, founder of LearnVest and author of Financially Fearless. Add up the following: how much cash you have and how much of it you want to spend, what you can save before the big day, and how much your parents will contribute. (Go tobrides.com/parentsandmoney for how to have that tricky conversation.) “Once you have a number, deduct 20 percent to account for unexpected extras and gratuities,” von Tobel advises. “Better to give yourself some wiggle room than to find yourself in debt down the road.”

DRAW UP A GUEST LIST
Your head count will impact everything from the venue to the favors, so figure it out ASAP. With your fiancé, create a list in Excel of everyone who must be there. Subtract that number from the total you envision for your wedding, then split the difference between his parents and yours. Build in a cushion and let them pick whomever they want, advises etiquette expert Elaine Swann. If your “must” list is bigger than your goal, you’ll need to cut names (use 'the five year/five minute rule') or make peace with a bigger wedding (and find the funds). Note: If your parents are footing most of the bill (read option 2), they may want to invite more guests than you’d like—and you may have to let them.

HAVE THE BIG PICTURE TALK

Before you make any decisions, you and your fiancé need to get on the same page. Here's, three convos to consider while you’re still in post-proposal bliss:

The Dream-Wedding Talk
Time to compare wedding fantasies! Set aside a weekend morning to discuss your ideal vibe, size, style, and time of year. Go crazy and don’t censor yourselves. Maybe you’re dreaming of an intimate wine- country fete in the fall or a summertime blowout with 400 friends and family on the beach. Look for common ground, and if you want different things, dig deeper, says Elana Katz, a New York City–based couples’ counselor: “Ask him to tell you more about why his ideas are so important to him.” Understanding the meaning behind them could get you on board—or at least help you find a compromise.

The Priorities Talk

Now that you have a vision, decide which details you value most. Is it a band that will keep your guests dancing all night? A killer menu to satisfy your foodie friends? An after-party catered by your favorite taco truck? Keep these things in mind when setting a budget and picking a venue.

SET A BUDGET - Hire a planner to help with partial planning or day-of service, if you plan on doing all the planning yourselves.


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